Etics, morality and the principle of unity
How do ethics and morality relate to the individual? They don’t relate at all. In our thinking ethics, morals, and everything else what is administered externally does not automatically fit into the reality of the individual. Wait, I'll explain before you start a negative post in your nervousness.
The consciousness of the individual, its formation and development are the point. It is up to me as an individual to realize what an attitude I have to develop towards myself and my environment. It does not go by our own laws, but by fitting. What fitting means? Look at your hand. You can see ten fingers there, which are the integral parts of your body, so they fit into you. Since you and your ten fingers are one, you know exactly not to bite into your fingers because it is bad for you and your whole body. And here's the point: becoming one. Anything what you became one with, you automatically follow all the rules that serve the protection and pleasure the thing what you have become one with. This requires no external norms, because those only alienate, make you sick, if not based on the concept of becoming one.
Whether I study the text of the Hippocratic Oath or the text of a pledge made upon joining any organization, it does not mean anything if you are not conscious of your profession, don't feel the pain of the patient, and act only literally. If you rely on ethics and morality as an outward order, you are making a lot of mistakes. Perhaps, that social morality is alien, since in its text serves only the interests of a small group in power. If you cannot become one with this, you will have aversions and will take a side-track. Another case is when the mistake is in you. The external expectation is good, but you have not built your consciousness up in order to figure out how to approach a community in a way that suits everyone. If you can't unite and become one with the community you live in, then there can be any norm, it's unenforceable, or if you follow it, you'll get sick. You become like a student whose parents send him to a school where he learns what he doesn't like. If a university student is given the foundation in the first few years that is sufficient to choose the right subjects in the future based on his/her own awareness, then he/she will choose the one that is best for his/her individuality. If a prison merely is for stressing the standards of the majority society, it will serve only to keep criminals out of the community, in order to avoid that sinner harms the society for a period of time and will not serve the rehabilitation activity. The only question is whether the sinner can become one with the norms, can he/she feel them as his/her own norms, or remain alien to them? In the latter case, it is certain that after his/her release he/she will continue wherever he/she left off, in vain the rules of ethics have been taught to him/her.
We can discuss every area of our lives and see the same principle working. Can we become one with the proclamation of our religion, the regulation of the majority society, the people around us, the environment, the creation?
What is the goal? Retreat and reconsider your attitudes. Do not act like a judge who rules judgments under a particular code, as he/she can do nothing else, but feels inside that he/she have done the wrong thing. You are bound to the world by a thousand aspects. Perceive it as if the Universe had once been a large porcelain pot that had shattered and fallen into thousands of fragments. You're one of the many fragments. Life is nothing more than putting together this porcelain pot at a given time. If you, as a fragment, cannot become one with the whole pot and cannot fit into your place, can be given to you any assembly instructions externally, you will be unhappy, will live as stranger.
So, the goal is to find your place where you can unite with your universe and become one.

Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere, (Quran 2:155)

Who say, when afflicted with calamity: "To Allah We belong, and to Him is our return":- (Quran 2:156)
And here it is! For a believer, this is a revelation of being one.


















