Endurance, preservance
We are often angry, scold while live with adversities. E. g. we are fired from our workplace, our relationship ends up with somebody, we have financial problems, and so on.
With a negative attitude, this is all misfortune. But why don't you ask yourself what is the purpose of Allah? Perhaps Allah closes the door for us not because He wants evil, but a new door will open, which will yield more to us than the path we have taken before. Maybe if you are not fired, you will never be forced to stand on your own feet and be an entrepreneur. May have been your removal was needed that finally you build something better based on your own resources, abilities. Maybe your empty relationship with someone will be replaced by a more valuable one. At the first glance events that look negative can be turned into positive events in the long run. Whoever believes in Allah has also hope in the hopelessness. We should know that there is a reason for all, and if we rely on Him, the reasons will benefit us.
Abu Yahya Suhaib bin Sinan (May Allah be pleased with him) reported that:
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, "How wonderful is the case of a believer; there is good for him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If prosperity attends him, he expresses gratitude to Allah and that is good for him; and if adversity befalls him, he endures it patiently and that is better for him".
(Muslim)
Some people pretend as if they were not themselves. Their greed makes them a person who is different than their real character. Their lives are an artificial setup, based on lies, in reality they are all about deceiving others. They accumulate a lot of tension in themselves, which they are going to get rid of in a place where they don't have to pretend anymore, where they can release. This is their tight family, the environment of their closest friends. The real character comes up where we need to be recharged and we need to recharge others. Among our family, wife, brother. If the soul is noble, it is most noble in the family environment. However, if the soul is guilty, it blasts in this environment and it cannot be recharged, nor can it recharge others. It sucks the energy of others and exhausts itself, too. And going through difficult times is easier when we are together and bear the burden together. One single sinful member of our tight environment puts a lot of burden on him/herself and on others. The sinner may be is beyond the scope of judging him/herself. Because in sin Satan makes us blind, we don't see even ourselves. And pious, virtuous life makes us to see. We see our world and the afterlife, which brings contentment to our hearts. Therefore, it is important to clean and keep the heart pure.
The result what we achieve by sweating, is lasting. The little money is hard to come by, but hard to run out. Big money comes quickly and disappears by the weekend. If we see the latter process, then it is certain that there is some Haram in our earnings what we "lubricate". Always the Haram devours money. If the Haram is filtered out, the order will be restored.
Help, support others even in difficult times and Allah will help you. Do you want money? Give to others and Allah will give you back ten times more. If you do not think about yourself in your most difficult situations, you will be doubly relieved. Once because dealing with others distracts you from your own concerns, and secondly because you can count on the generosity of Allah to take you out of your vicissitudes. As long as we have a "this is mine" consciousness, we find it difficult to relieve ourselves. But remember: all charity starts within the family!
If your heart is attached too much to this world, you will lose your hereafter.
On no soul doth Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear. It gets every good that it earns, and it suffers every ill that it earns. (Pray:) "Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget or fall into error; our Lord! Lay not on us a burden Like that which Thou didst lay on those before us; Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Blot out our sins, and grant us forgiveness. Have mercy on us. Thou art our Protector; Help us against those who stand against faith." (Quran 2:286)